Maximize your womanhood
I want to share with you 3 steps to maximizing your womanhood Queen. You can do these 3 things starting now, today and for the rest of your life.
Surround, speak and seek!
I want us to start or continue to surround ourselves around positive people. Surround yourself around people who will tell you that you’re beautiful. You’re talented. You got this. Go for it. Adjust your crown Queen. Smile. Love yourself. Surround yourself around people who will encourage you to be a better you. This means they have your best interest, and they will tell you about yourself and push you to be great. Again, this is why your environment, who you hang around, who you talk to, your community matters.
Surround yourself around people who will bring healthy things, healthy perspectives, healthy help, and healthy love into your life. Ladies I want you to take a look at the company that you keep. Are they pulling you UP to their level? Because again we’re supposed to grow, evolve and go higher. Level to level. Or are they pulling you DOWN to their level? If so, that’s not good. You’ve shrunk, you’ve adapted to their lifestyle, and you lost yourself. Your circle should be motivating and helping you grow not be stuck.
Check your circle.
2). The next thing is speak.
I need for all of us to start speaking to our success. You have got to start speaking over your life. There is life and death in the power of the tongue. What you speak and how you speak will take form and manifest over your life. What you say matters!!!
You got to speak into the atmosphere what type of woman you want to be. Ladies, you got to make a choice. What type of woman do you want to be? And begin to speak it. Tell yourself, I’m talented, I’m smart, I’m successful, I’m going to win, I’m going to be a giver, I am a wife, I’m able, I’m blessed, God got my back, I got this. I’m healthy, I’m rich, I’m going to get my degree.
Begin to speak over yourself. Validate yourself because people don’t get paid to praise you, you got to do it yourself. No longer should you say, “well my dad never told me that I was special”. “I don’t know if I can do it”. “I don’t think I’m good enough”.
Queen, it’s time out for the excuses. It’s time for you to tell yourself how special you really are. I also want us to understand that you speak your outcomes in your life. Words are like spirits wrapped in sound. So, when you release a word you release a spirit and that spirit has power and effect on your life.
So, when you say, “girl I’m so broke, I don’t know what to do with myself”. “I guess I’m not good enough”. “I’m afraid”. “I’m nervous”. “What if it don’t work out”. You are speaking death, poverty, fear, and sickness into your life. You got to speak the very words that you want to be. If you want to be successful, you tell yourself that. Release positive words of affirmation. Not negative words of destruction. Remember words are like spirits wrapped in sound.
3). Seek your worth.
If someone were to ask you what is your worth?
How much are you worth?
How would you answer that question?
What are you worth ladies?
You have to establish your worth?
Are you worth being played with? Are you worth the change? Are you worth the risk?
What are you worth? You have to establish you worth because here’s the thing if you don’t establish your worth, somebody else can come into your life and put a tag on you. If you don’t know what your worth is, there is someone else that is waiting to establish it for you. I remember when I was going through my storm with my previous relationship and a grown man told me this. When boys meet women, who know their worth and refuse to put up with certain things, they run. They act out. They call us names. They will go and lie and gossip and talk bad about us just to make us look bad. He said that’s what boys do.
But when a man approaches you, when a man sees you and understands your worth, he’ll match your energy and your worth and stay right there with you. That’s why it’s important to love yourself because people see how you treat yourself and that will teach them how to treat you. It’s not about walking around acting snooty like you can’t be touched but it’s about walking in humility, in grace, in elegance, in your worth. Seek your worth Queen and NEVER settle